**This is a guest post by Austin McCann. Austin is the student pastor at Courtney Baptist Church in Yadkinville, NC. He is also currently working on his Master's and planning on getting married this August! You can see more of Austin student ministry and leader thoughts on his blog (www.austinmccann.com) or follow him on Twitter @HUBpaustin.
One of the most important things in student ministry is developing a good team of adult leaders. Forming this team of leaders can happen pretty quickly, but it’s the building up of the team that takes time. They will not be trained in student ministry like you are and maybe not be where you are spiritually. This is why it is vitally important that you mentor them and help them grow as Christians as well as effective leaders. Here are some practical ways to mentor your adult leaders:

  1. Meet with them as a team regularly. I meet with my adult leaders once a month. A lot of times this meeting is more “informational based” than I would like. I want to transition this meeting into more of a training meeting where I pour into my leaders and train them in certain areas of student ministry. It’s up to you when or how you want to meet with your leaders, but to mentor them you need to meet with them regularly. 

  2. Meet with them one-on-one. Most student pastors do great at having monthly leader meetings, but one area they struggle in is meeting with their leaders one-on-one. I understand why this can be difficult because the majority of your leaders will have full-time jobs and families so they don’t have all the time in the world to meet. But we must find a way to meet with them one-on-one at least once a month or every few months. It is only in one-on-one meetings that you will hear their struggles and help them the most. This, I believe, is the most important and effective way to mentor your adult leaders.

  3. Equip them to do ministry and grow spiritually. One of the easier and fastest ways to mentor adult leaders is to share with them resources that will help them grow as a leader and as a Christian. Buy them some books that you know will help them grow and give the books to them as gifts. Send out e-mails with links to helpful articles or free resources online. However you do it, share with them resources that you know will help them.

  4. Plug them into the ministry. Don’t miss this one! This is huge! Once you have started the mentoring process with your leaders, plug them into ministry. The best way for them to grow as leaders is doing ministry themselves! I use my adult leaders as small group leaders. So every week, my leaders are doing ministry and have ownership over part of our ministry. Also, let them teach from time to time if they are capable. Allow them to fill in when you’re on vacation. There are many ways you can plug them into ministry, but however you do it, just make sure you do it, it’s vital!

These are just a few of the many ways you can mentor your adult leaders. They are a vital part of your student ministry and without them you can’t get the job done. A student pastor would be foolish not to spend time building and equipping adult leaders to serve along side him. 


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**Note from Joel - Austin's points are wonderfully stated and wise. I found myself being reminded of many core principles that I needed a refresher on as well. What would you add to this list? We'd love to hear your thoughts! Leave them in a comment below!

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“We are not to simply bandage the wounds of victims beneath the wheels of injustice, we are to drive a spoke into the wheel itself.” ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer

_ This one quote is at the heart of Christian Action. For those who don’t know, Dietrich Bonhoeffer was a pastor, church planter, apologist and activist during the time of the Nazi regime under Hitler. Bonhoeffer was tried (in a court proceeding as unlawful as that of Jesus), jailed and executed for his faith. He illegally started churches in Germany, fled from the law and was one of the many who planned an attempt on Hitler’s life. Out of all of the things that Bonhoeffer did, the one he is most remembered for is his attempt on Hitler’s life. Why? He is remembered for this because there is so much debate on whether or not this action was the right and Godly thing to do.

Was it?

I think it is strange for us, in this day and age, to think that assassinating a world leader could be a right course of action, but we need to look at the facts of the day. Hitler was persecuting Christians, Jews (among many other races), and the mentally handicapped and physically handicapped of all ages and social circumstances. Where is the cause of the meek? Where is the stand for the fatherless and fighting for the cause of the widowed? The Third Reich was killing Jewish babies, using them as brutal forced labor and killing them without reason, but was it right that Bonhoeffer attempted to assassinate Hitler? I don’t know. What I would like to point out that he took action.

As Christians, we are called to protect the case of the fatherless, stand up for widows, protect children from sin and protect ourselves and others from sin. Bonhoeffer, whether right or wrong, took a stand against evil. What do Christians do today? We fight with each other. We don’t take our cause to the needy, we mask our fear of the world by joining with them in attacking the church. The church is not meant to be attacked by other “denominations”; we are meant to correct ourselves by iron sharpening iron. I believe this negative criticism is happening because of fear. We are trying to fill our Christian “stand up for Christ” commandment by doing it against our own. John Dryden once said, “Boldness is a mask for fear, however great.” 

This is what Christian boldness has become. We aren't bold in the face of evil. We are bold in the face of ourselves. It is easier to tell your brother or sister they are doing wrong than it is to tell a stranger.

All this being said, the Christian church is the weakest religious institution in the United States because we don’t act. I don’t believe that all of us are called to church reform; I believe that the Great Commission is the founded goal of the Christian life. Cowardliness hides behind many so-called reformers and philosophers. I want to leave you with the fact that HE is the Potter and WE are the clay....we are meant to mold to Him, He is not meant to mold to us.

Be bold and talk to someone who needs life.


*This guest post was written by Zach McClellan, whom I have had the pleasure of knowing for several years now. Feel free to follow him on Twitter here. Note: All opinions expressed in this guest blog are Zach McClellan's and are not necessarily those held by Joel Onyshuk. Please direct any and all comments to Zach.

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Starting a homeschooling program for your family can seem a daunting task.  Many questions may need to be answered before a person would consider it.  I’d like to try to answer some of those questions here, with the intent of making it easier and simpler to start.

First, the basics.  Homeschooling is a right, guaranteed in many documents including the United Nation’s Universal Declaration of Human Rights, which the U.S. signed.  Anyone restricting your rights to homeschool is operating outside the law – even when they claim to be the law.  

There are, depending on your source of information, between 1.5 – 6 million homeschoolers in the United States alone.  In every state and every community, people are homeschooling.  You are not alone.  But there are often restrictions and requirements placed on homeschoolers by the state.  To find out about the requirements for your state, use this link: 

http://www.hslda.org/laws/

This will take you to a page on the Homeschool Legal Defense Association’s site, one with a map of the United States.  Click on your state.  This will take you to a page with the info you will need to know to homeschool within the law.  You may be required to register a homeschooler with a local school district.  You may have to meet with a school district teacher, say once a month, and demonstrate your progress by showing essays, tests, even curriculum that you may be using.  You may have to do none of the above.  Thanks to this site, it’s easy to find out what is required.

Given the huge number of people homeschooling, it clearly can be done.  People homeschool for different reasons.  Amongst the most common are 1) They don’t trust schools; 2) Schools aren’t safe; 3) They want their children exposed to certain ideologies and beliefs; 4) They want a superior education made available for their children; 5) They want their children to be free to learn about things that interest them rather than just the proscribed subjects by the state; 6) They want to be free of “homework” and its endless control over a child and his family’s life.  There are many other reasons.  The truth is, you don’t need any reason at all to homeschool – at least, not a reason that you need to explain to any authority.  Homeschooling is your right.

How do homeschoolers do in the world?  Well, let’s start with a history lesson.  What do these people share in common: George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, John Adams, James Madison (author of the Constitution), Mark Twain, Charles Dickens, Thomas Edison, J.S. Bach, Mozart, Leonardo da Vinci, Claude Monet, Albert Einstein and Ben Franklin all have in common?  They all homeschooled.  In fact, prior to this last century a majority of the people who made history in politics, science, in any area you care to consider, were homeschooled.

How about today?  Will your homeschooled child be allowed into college?  I recently interviewed a College Dean, Greg Lampard from College America (they have some 18,000 students, I believe) and we discussed exactly that subject.  He informed me that his college actively seeks homeschoolers.  Why?  Because per the Dean, homeschoolers do between 10-15% better in their grades and in testing, and by other measurements, than children from school situations both public and private.  (So much for the argument that your child should be taught by “an expert”, a “trained teacher”.  Their results are not as good, per all national test score measurements, as homeschoolers get!)

And of course, there’s the fabled “socialization” issue.  Again, the Dean informed me that homeschoolers as a group are more able to work with others and get things done than students from schools.  I have absolutely seen this to be the case, after teaching in schools for about 15 years, and then homeschooling and working with homeschoolers for the past 10 years.  And what sort of “socialization” does a child receive in public school?  Research done by a university working with the Department of Education and released just a few months ago showed that some 46% of all school children are harassed in any given school year by other children.  A report issued by the Dept, of Ed. in 2004 stated that between 6%-10% of all public school children would be sexually abused by a teacher or school staff member during that student’s time in public school.  

The argument heard most often against homeschooling is that the child will only have family, and will not know how to be around others.  Well, as a homeschool single dad with two children, I made certain they had extracurricular activities, saw their friends every week at our house or at their friends, had sleepovers and whatever was needed.  They were surrounded by people they and I knew and trusted.  They were always safe, and surrounded with love and concerned family and friends.  My children are VERY social, at ages 20 and 24 today.  

Through personal experience I discovered that the socialization issue is actually a lie, a way to control and to scare people back into public schools.  Schools are paid by head count.  They are paid for each student who shows up, that’s why roll is taken in class first, before anything else is done – it’s about money.  So schools do not want you to homeschool!  Teachers do not want you to homeschool, it places their livelihood in jeopardy.

Bottom line – homeschooling has for a very long time, many centuries, been the most successful form of education!  It is legal, though you may have to jump through some hoops that simply should not legally exist.  

Millions of people successfully homeschool every single day.  You can, too.


NOTE: This is a guest post by notable homeschooling expert, Steven David Horwich, and all opinions expressed in this blog post are his. If you would like to  read more of Steven's thoughts, please feel free to visit one of his many blogs here. You may also follow him on Twitter for daily homeschooling news, info, and curriculum updates. 

Thank you, Steven, for sharing your perspective and passion for ensuring our children are educated well. I appreciate you taking time to write this post.

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